How often do we say, “Have a good day.” Not every day is what we would call a “good day.” We will have those bad days when we just feel down and out. Nothing seems to go right. As you reflect on those times would you not have loved to have someone to come along side of you with kind and encouraging support.
And as believers, God wants us to be available to be an encourager to others in their time of need. In the verse above the Greek word for encourager is “parakletos” which means, “one who is called alongside.” And that is exactly what God wants us as believers to be.
The same Greek word is used in John 14:16-18 where Jesus told His disciples that He was leaving to go back to His Father but He would send an encourager, the Holy Spirit, to be with them.
Jesus is our primary example of an encourager. Just look at several of His teachings while on this earth. He taught His disciples to pray and to expect results. He showed His disciples the importance of forgiveness in bringing encouragement to one’s life. He emphasized many times to not let anxiety discourage you.
His actions encouraged people. His provisions, five loaves of bread and two fish encouraged a large crown of hungry people. When His disciples were caught in a great storm on the sea and were in danger of sinking, He calmed the water saying, “Take courage, it is I, do not be afraid. Mark 6:47-51).”
Here are a few thoughts on how to be a Christ-like encourager to others:
* Give a sincere and uplifting comment when the opportunity comes your way.
* Speak the truth with love and agree when appropriate.
* Pass on helpful information.
* Encourage with scripture and a prayer.
* Give correction when it is appropriate.
* Give assurance you will love them whether they succeed or fail.
* Comfort and reassure them when they need it.
* Thank them for the blessing they are to you.
* Offer a helping hand, a smile or a gift.
* Listen and do not interrupt.
* Hug them, forgive them if appropriate.
* Compliment them and accept them as they are.
* Motivate them to do their best.
* Assure them that you will be there for them.
